A Heartfelt Farewell: Emma Slater’s Moving Tribute to Late DWTS Partner James Van Der Beek
Just days before the tragic news of his passing, professional dancer Emma Slater shared a poignant final moment with her former Dancing With the Stars partner, James Van Der Beek. Slater, 37, took to Instagram on Thursday, February 12, to express her profound grief and honour the beloved actor’s legacy, reflecting on the deep connection they forged during their time together on the show and beyond.
The dancer posted a cherished throwback photograph of Van Der Beek affectionately wrapping his arm around her waist. They are pictured in the DWTS sky box, smiles on their faces as they await their scores, a snapshot capturing the joy and camaraderie they shared. “My partner. My big brother,” Slater wrote, her words resonating with deep emotion. “Over the many photos we’ve taken over the years, this one is still my favorite. Dancing and laughing. It’s what we do.”
She continued, struggling to find adequate words to express her sorrow. “Nothing I can write seems ok. All those who had the pleasure of having you in their lives are blessed. Forever changed by your brilliance. We got to have these beautiful years sharing life together. It started with being dance partners and I was beyond excited to be dancing with you, and it continued into the deepest of friendships.”
More Than Just Dance Partners
Slater revealed the profound impact Van Der Beek, his wife Kimberly, and their six children had on her life, viewing them as an extension of her own family. “I found so much purpose in our little community,” she shared. “Watching your love for your family changed my life. I’m so grateful for you and all you have done for me. Your kindness, patience and empathy for others is unmatched. Your wise advice. I will always marvel at the ability you had to master everything. Your school boy laugh I will never forget.”
The emotional tribute underscored the genuine bond that transcended their professional relationship. Slater’s words painted a vivid picture of a man who was not only a talented performer but also a deeply caring individual, a devoted husband and father, and a supportive friend.
A Final Conversation and Lasting Promise
The 37-year-old dancer disclosed that she last saw the Dawson’s Creek alum on Sunday, a meeting where she was able to express the depth of her feelings for him one last time. “I’m so grateful that I got to see you on Sunday, to talk to you and to tell you for the millionth time how much I love you,” she recounted. “We laughed together. And I promised I would feel your presence always, as I already have. Thank you ❤️.”
Slater concluded her heartfelt message with a promise to carry his memory forward. “I’m lucky to have known the man that you are. You have done so much, helped so many people. You’ll be forever in my heart. And now I know whenever I’m guided, I’ll be guided by you 🤍 I love you partner.” Her words served as a powerful testament to the enduring impact Van Der Beek had on those fortunate enough to cross his path.
The Star’s Brave Battle with Cancer
James Van Der Beek passed away at the age of 48 on February 11. The tragic news followed a private battle with stage 3 colorectal cancer, a diagnosis he received in August 2023.
In March 2025, Van Der Beek spoke candidly about confronting his own mortality, a profound experience that reshaped his perspective on life. “This year, I had to look my own mortality in the eye. I came nose to nose with death,” he shared at the time. “All of those definitions that I cared so deeply about were stripped from me. I was away for treatment so I could no longer be a husband who was helpful to my wife. I could no longer be a father who could pick up his kids and put them to bed and be there for them.” His brave openness about his health struggles highlighted his resilience and commitment to living authentically, even in the face of immense personal challenge.
